Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Cleaning Out My Closet! Tips!

Ciao dears,
I loved this song when I was younger…still do. Had to include it because of the title, other than that it has nothing to do with the rest of the post, ha!
        I spent about 3 days last week organizing my room, cleaning out my closet, throwing away things that were old and ugly, and going through pretty much every article of clothing I own.  I had to get rid of about 200-ish pairs of jeans (I haven’t gotten rid of a pair in years and I guess I liked buying new ones…lol) as well as a bunch of tops, skirts, etc.! Sad smile  I was not too happy about it since I love my clothes, lol, but now that I’ve lost some weight (70 pounds!), everything is too big.  I did get a bunch of new clothes recently (with money I saved from my birthday, yay! Smile) so that made me feel a little better about getting rid of so much stuff.  new clothes always make me feel better.  I did keep a few of my favorite things that are a little big because I can wear belts or find some way to make them work.  Anyway, I thought I’d share some tips on organizing your closet and getting rid of things you don’t want/need/wear.  I hope they’re helpful to someone. Smile 
1.) Get rid of anything that you no longer want or that you won’t wear anymore (or that doesn’t fit for some reason, unless you intend to fit in it again, lol).  I know some people (me!!) love to hold onto things way too long and dread throwing things away (I’m such a hoarder!), but it’s good to make room for new things or just to make your closet more organized and useful for getting dressed/finding things more easily.  I had some shirts from the eighth grade (lol!!) that were weird and I was never going to wear again; it was definitely time to get rid of them. 
2.) Sort the things you don’t want into 2 different piles/bags: 
-Trash (things that are ruined, have holes, or are just plain awful!) 
-Donate/Give-away/Sell (things that are wearable but you just don’t want or fit in them anymore)
     It’s always nice to donate old clothes to those who want them or are less fortunate than you.  You      could either give them to someone you might know who is whatever size the clothes are who might want them or donate them to some kind of charitable organization like Goodwill or something.  I’m sure you could find one of those big bin things near where you live that collect clothes for the less fortunate.  This is what I usually do with all my clothes I don’t want anymore or that don’t fit, it makes me feel good to know I helped someone. Smile  
        You could also sell some of the nicer things you don’t want to a consignment/second-hand shop near you if you wanted to make a little extra money.  I’m going to try this with a few of my jeans and things that I’m not donating since there’s this new consignment shop near me, I'll try and see if it works out.
3.) Arrange and sort your closet (that is now mostly free of anything you don’t wear/want/fit in) by either color or style or both.  This makes it easy to find what you’re looking for, especially when in a hurry.  I prefer color, so I organize my closet starting with white on one side then going through all the colors until you get to black on the other side.  You also might want to sort by style such as tank tops, short sleeved tops, blazers, etc…  I also put a second pole in my closet (I’m so handy, lol!) since I needed more space (I wish I had a walk in closet, but sadly I don’tSad smile), so I have my shirts/tops on the top pole and skirts/pants at the bottom of the closet. 
4.) If you have a ridiculous amount of clothes (like I do…still, lol), it helps to divide them into Summer/Spring and Winter/Fall things.  I put away the Summer/Spring clothes when it gets cold and store them in big plastic bins that I store in my basement.  I switch them with the Winter/Fall clothes in the Spring.  That way, my closet isn’t cluttered with things that won’t be worn for months.
5.) I also re-organized my jewelry and accessories (they got a little messy lately, lol), but I’ve already done a post on that before and not much has changed.  You can see how I organized them here: http://principessagabriella.blogspot.com/2011/02/jewelryaccessoriesmakeup-collection.html 
Happy Organizing dears!  Do you have any good tips for organizing your closet or clothes or room?  Comment below. Smile
P.S. Thanks Dominick for the idea to write about this on here.  See, I do listen to you, always, lol. Winking smile
♥Xoxo Gabriella

Thursday, May 10, 2012

Casual & Party Outfits! & Haircut!

Ciao dears,

        I’ve spent my first week of summer vacation from college relaxing (Yay, finally!), watching TV, cooking, spending time with my nieces and nephew ♥, taking walks, organizing my room/clothes (more on that in my next post), and praying for patience (don’t ask…).  It’s been lovely to not worry about school for the first time in a while.  Smile  Anyway, here are two outfits from the past week (a few of the days I actually got dressed and didn’t stay in my pajamas…lol!).  I also got a haircut!  Nothing too drastic, I just got bangs, layers, and cut about 2 inches off the bottom because I hadn’t gotten in a trim in a while.  The first outfit is before the haircut, obviously.

1.) Casual Jeggings

         Since most of my pants don’t fit anymore (too big, yay!), I was excited when my sister gave me these jeans/jeggings.  I also love that I can now wear her clothes!  You have no idea how exciting it is for me to be able to now share some clothes with my skinny older sister, Jenelle, lol.  She’s been giving me a bunch of her clothes she doesn’t want or that are a little big for her now since she lost a little weight too.  She’s also been trying to borrow all my new clothes now since they fit her, ha!  Smile She used to just borrow all my shoes and accessories, but now we can share clothes too! Yay!  I also straightened my hair with my not so great straightener…really need a new one soon.

          

Jeggings: Aeropostale, Tank top: DEB, Sweater: Torrid, Wedges: Payless

2.) Spring Party Outfit!

        I wore this fun outfit to another of my best friends, Kristen’s, 21st birthday party, which was fun. Smile  I love the high-low skirt/dress trend, it’s so cute and fun!  I wore a high-low dress in March for my birthday and loved it, so I bought 2 high-low skirts recently. 

   

    

Skirt: Kohl’s, Tank top: Torrid, Shrug: Forman Mills, Heels: ? borrowed from my mom, Bracelet, Ring, & Earrings: Forever 21

       That’s all for now, comment below if you’d like. Smile What do you think of high-low skirts?  Love them or not?  Like my new hair?

                                                                                   ♥Xoxo Gabriella♥ 

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Happy Girl! (Finally!)


Ciao lovlies!
        So, guess what?!  As you may have guessed from the title, I’m feeling pretty damn happy lately!!  Yay!  I really needed to get over being so depressed, grumpy, and miserable all the time, it’s no fun, ha!  No, I still don’t have a boyfriend, new or ex or whatever.  I forgot that I don’t need one!!! To be happy or for any other reason, ha!!  Maybe I’ll have another one at some point but I need to not obsess so much, just a little Winking smile.  I am talking to this one guy, who seems nice, but we’ll see.  Anyway, I finally finished this semester of college yesterday!!  I have never been so excited to be done school before.  This semester, or the whole year, really, I’ve been such a stressed out mess.  Always sad about some boy or pissed off at another, oh my!  All that on top of never sleeping and spending 24 hours of my day on school work of some type was just too much!  I do generally love school, learning, reading, writing, etc., but I just desperately need a break.  So, for me, it summer vacation now!! Woo! Open-mouthed smile
        Of course, being me, I have a to do list that’s miles long for the summer, a lot of which is fun, some not as much, but for the next few days, I’m hiding from all work, responsibility, and everything!! I’m even avoiding my father because he always seems to have something for me to do: paperwork, stuff at the restaurant, or something…no thank you!  Not now, at least, I deserve a little break, damn it!  Lol!  I was so super excited to just sleep for as long as I wanted without having to worry about getting up for class, or to finish a paper or homework or anything today!!  So amazing!  I spent this afternoon babysitting my nephew, Joey (or my little fella, as I like to call him), and that was super fun!  I had time to play “hide and seek,” color with him, watch cute cartoons, and let him bang on all the bowls in my house to “play drums.”  Ha!  I love that little boy so much!  I’ll have to borrow him a few days this summer, lol, and my nieces too.  We need some Aunt Gabby time. Smile  I’ll also have more time to blog way more often, which I’ll get to soon, so yay! Smile
        Here’s an outfit I wore 2 weeks ago to one of my oldest and most wonderful friends, Vickie’s 21st birthday party at a casino!  It was fun and great to hang out with her.  She does happen to be dating that boy I was a tiny bit obsessed with earlier this year…awkward!  Haha!, life is so strange and hilarious, isn’t it!  It was a little, (maybe very!) awkward and weird to be there next to him and around him all night (He even took my picture with Vickie) and we never said a word to each other…lol!  No “Hi,” nothing.  It’s fine though, I love her, and they are super cute together!  Anyway, not to sound obnoxious, but I loved my outfit! Lol.  The sequined top is such a fun color and I like the pretty lace on the skirt.  Enjoy! Winking smile 

      
Skirt: Dots, Sequined Top: Ross, Tank Top: DEB, Belt & Heels: Torrid, Bracelets & Earrings: Forever 21                 
                                                                              ♥ Xoxo Gabriella

Sunday, April 29, 2012

Late Night Poem from a Broken Heart: “Away”

 
Ciao dears,
        It’s very late, I can’t sleep, and I’m still upset…so of course I wrote something…which I may regret later.  It’s a poem, which generally is not my favorite thing to write, but I did it anyway.  Writing about things helps me deal with them, focus on them, indulge my insanity, whatever, ha!  I thought about sending it to my ex-boyfriend, but what would be the point of that?  He probably hates me now, since he wants nothing more to do with me.  So, I’m posting it here I guess. 
Away
I loved you before, I love you now, and I’m scared I always will.
You broke my heart, I can’t explain why, but I love you still.
I’ll never forget our first kiss or the way you made me melt when you sat close to me and held my hand.
I’ll never forget that tenth day in December when we met or the way you made me so nervous I could barely stand.
I’ll never forget the things you said to me, both good and bad.
I’ll never forget the dreams of us I wanted so badly it nearly drove me mad.
I’ll always treasure the time we spent, the poem you wrote me, and the words we’ve shared.
I’ll always remember you and I want you to know that I really, truly, always cared.
You’ll always be the boy with whom I shared my first kiss, my first date, the first man I ever let get so close.
You’ll forever be my first true love, I wouldn't change it, and will never get over it, I suppose.
I miss the times when you desired my attention and made me feel wanted and in love.
I miss your sweet smile and the way you looked at me with those eyes, I must stop dreaming of.
But so many times you’ve made me cry and acted as if you didn’t care.
You made me feel like the love we’ve shared is, for you, no longer there.
No one has ever hurt me so much as when you said that we were done.
It felt like my heart was ripped out of my chest and gone was the light from the sun.
So I’ll have to learn to stop dreaming that you’ll show up at my door
Because I guess we’ll never be together like we were before.
The dreams of happily ever after, wedding bells, and a life together must be forced to fade away,
Because if you really wanted any of that you would be here with me today.
I hope you live a happy life and accomplish all that you’ve dreamed.
As heartbroken as you’ve made me, I still like to think it wasn’t as it seemed.
But please don’t forget the shy girl who loved you with all she had from the very start.
My dear, you’ll always have to keep, a little piece of my heart,
But this is the last time I can let myself think of you and cry myself to sleep.
This pain I can live with no longer, this sadness I cannot keep.
So, in my heart I’ll forever keep my dreams of you where they’ll safely stay,
But sadly, sweetheart, you’ll remain the one that got away.


 (Added later) P.S. To those of you convinced he doesn't love me, I think you're wrong.  I guess I was wrong when I thought he hated me too.  I gave him the poem, we talked and for certain reasons we can't control right now, we've agreed we can't be together now.  We're going to stay friends (I guess you can call it) and talk sometimes, and maybe some day we'll be together again, if it's meant to be.  We'll see.  For now, I need to be happy, move on, and live my life without being sad about it anymore though.  I finally think I feel okay for the first time in a while. :)  Be happy dears! 
 
                                                                                 ♥ Xoxo Gabriella

Saturday, April 28, 2012

Disaster…Did You Ever Love Me at All?

    
Ciao dears,
        So, I have still been talking to my ex-boyfriend lately.  I’ve never really stopped talking to him really.  Bad idea, I know now.  I still loved him though…still do now, whether he deserves it or not.  I thought maybe we could be friends like I am with this other guy I dated once (not that that really works out perfectly all the time either…) but that didn’t work because I still have feelings for him.  I told him so and he said he still loved me too.  Okay, great, but we still couldn’t be together because he moved to a different state! Sad smile  So we still continued talking, but I wasn’t sure what the hell we were doing.  We weren’t dating because when he asked if I wanted to be in a long distance relationship with him, I said no.  I don’t want to be constantly missing him and wishing I could be with him, when I can’t, it’d drive me crazy.  Then again, I still felt like that, so I don’t have a clue what was going on.  We both said we missed each other and it was starting to drive me crazy because I still want him, desperately. Sad smile  I tried to say goodbye a few times because it wasn’t good for either of us, but I always ended up going back to talking to him.  I don’t know what it is he does to me, but I don’t want to be without him.  It’s so sad and pathetic, I know.    
 
        We got in some kind of stupid argument today because I felt like he was ignoring me and wouldn’t answer my questions.  I’d asked him before if he was seeing or talking to or whatever any other girls.  He’d said no before and said there were no other girls, only me, which of course made me melt.  I don’t know if I believe him anymore, maybe that’s why he wouldn’t answer.  I don’t understand him anymore at all.  A few days ago he claimed to love me and miss me, and now he says he wants nothing to do with me. Crying face  He’d never said anything like that before, even when we broke up God knows how many times…there was always some excuse why we couldn’t be together.  It has to be the most hurtful thing anyone’s ever said to me.  It felt like he ripped out my heart and literally stomped on it.  All I ever wanted from him was his love and attention, I guess I’ll never have it.  I tried so hard to fix things and wanted us to be happy together so badly, I guess I was really blinded by love. That silly phrase is right.  It makes me wonder if he ever really loved me at all?  I know I did and I still do love him.  How do I make that go away?  Will it ever?  How do you get over loving someone? You’d think I’d have gotten over him a long time ago, I haven’t actually seen him in weeks!  I have a hard time letting go of things, I suppose.  I guess this time I have no choice but to be done with him.  Hopefully, I get over him eventually.  He didn’t deserve my love if he always made me feel awful like this.  The thought of him being with anybody else makes me absolutely sick though...but I guess I do want him to be happy.  I try to tell myself, "You don't need him, never did, you just want him.  You can't have everything you want."  I know I'll live without him, but still when I think about him and what thought we could have had together, it makes me so sad.  I need to stop crying over him though.  Whatever, I guess I’ll have to go back on my search to find “Prince Charming.”  Ha, or maybe he’ll find me, whichever.  I am determined to be happy this summer, I need it desperately. 
Love this song!
        Have a great weekend everyone, comment below if you’d like.  I’ll be done school for this semester after I finish writing a few ridiculously annoying papers this weekend and a few more classes on Monday! Yay!  I’ll try to blog a lot more often and about a lot more things this summer since I’ll finally have some free time!  Take care dears.  Smile
P.S. To my dear and very sweet friend, Dominick: I’m terribly sorry to have bothered you with all my whining about problems with this guy who didn’t deserve me.  You were right.  Thanks for always trying to make me feel better though. ♥  You treated me ten times better than he ever did even though we’re only friends and I drive you crazy sometimes.  You’re an amazing friend and I’m very lucky to have you.  Open-mouthed smile 
                                                                                     ♥ Xoxo Gabriella

Sunday, April 15, 2012

Is Love Enough?

Ciao dears,
        Have you ever questioned something you’ve always instinctively believed to be true?  My whole life I always thought love would be enough to do anything.  If Girl loves Boy, and Boy loves Girl, they should then live happily ever after…right?  Nothing should get in the way of that.  In reality unfortunately, life does get in the way.  Years of Disney movies with princes who save the princess have made me want a fairytale.  Maybe I’ll still have it one day.  Since my mind is very hard to change though, I still do believe love IS enough.  Maybe you just have to wait.  If you really are in love, it will be enough, at some point.  If not, I guess it was not meant to be and maybe that wasn’t your true love.  Time will tell and I will be happy with whomever my prince is someday, if it kills me.  Ha!  In the meantime, I’ll just collect ex-boyfriends as friends, I suppose, lol.  Once I love someone, I can't just turn that off, it doesn't go away.  I just have to learn to accept that things can't always work out the way you wish they had at the time.  I’ll always love you, Adi, in case you happen to read this.    
        Also, here’s my outfit of the day.  I wore this to see 21 Jump Street with a friend and it was hilarious!  Very funny and cute movie. (Channing Tatum is always adorable!)  Have a nice week!, I’ll probably be too busy with school to blog for the next few days or week.        
 
Dress: Target, Leggings & Shrug: Forman Mills, Flats: Avenue, Belt: NYC & Co., Bracelet & Necklace: Forever 21
                    ♥ Xoxo Gabriella

Monday, April 9, 2012

Easter Fun with a Special Guest!

 

Ciao lovlies,

Guess what?!  I found something……

THE EASTER BUNNY!!!!!  Haha! Seriously, is he not the cutest thing ever!  I love him!  He’s not mine though, he’s my nieces’ and nephew's pet.  They brought him over for Easter and everyone wanted to play with him.  He’s adorable and fluffy!  I never had a pet as a child, so I wanted to play with him, lol!  I hope everyone had a lovely Easter (or Passover or just a nice weekend). Smile  Here’s my Easter outfit and my new buddy, Buster the bunny. Smile 

This was my Easter dress.  It reminds me of an Easter egg, ha! Smile What do you think?

   

I tried to wear light, spring-ish colored makeup, so I didn’t wear black eyeliner. I wore light blue instead…and it make me look like a little girl, lol!  My eyes look weird, never again!  My hair looks shorter too, but I didn’t cut it!  It’s just the curls are too big…oh well.  

Dress: Charlotte Russe, Shrug: DEB, Tights: ??,  Wedges: Payless, Bracelet: Forever 21, Necklace: gift, Earrings(sorry, can’t really see them): Claire’s

                                         ♥ Xoxo Gabriella

Saturday, April 7, 2012

Boys?! and Early Spring Outfits!

Ciao dears,
        Why is it that any and all the men/boys in my life absolutely love to drive me insane?  All of them, my father, creepy customers at work, boyfriend/ex-boyfriends/friends….whatever the hell they are, they all drive me insane.  Do they do it on purpose, or is some kind of male trait?!?! Haha.  I don’t understand them at all and I don’t know why I bother trying.  Some of them constantly ignore me, break my heart over and over again, and then show up randomly, only to ignore me again.  Ahhh!  I could smack some of them.  Some of them want more from me that I want to give them.  Some of them flirt with me but take forever and a day to finally ask me out, and then some of them like me but I’m too picky and don’t like them that way.  I went back on one of those dating website things and I am constantly getting messages from all these guys…none of which I really like.  I always find something wrong with them.  For example: oh, he’s an atheist, don’t like that, (lol) or he’s my father’s age (eww!!), or he’s not looking for a girlfriend, just some tramp to hook up with (no thank you!), or just the fact that he’s not the guy I really want.  Yes, I know, I complained for God knows how long that guys didn’t want me and apparently they do..but I’m choosy about it.  I’m stubborn, I want what I want, and my mind doesn’t like to change very easily…it’s a problem.  Oh boys…lol.  I love them and I can’t stand them…ha!  Help.  Sometimes I wish I could just give up on all of them…but I can’t and don’t really want to.  

        Anyway, enough about my whiny, weird boy issues.  Here are some outfits from the past two weeks.  The weather has been a little strange here.  One day it’s springtime weather and sunny, the next it’s chilly and I have to wear tights again.  Enjoy.  Smile
1.) Peach & Bell Bottoms (& a Widow’s Peak!)
I (kind of) straightened my hair, but curled the ends here.  I rarely pull all of the front of my hair back because of that lovely little point in the middle of my head, called a widow’s peak.  I hate the name, I don’t really like the way it looks…but whatever, it’s part of me, so whatever, lol.  That’s why I tend to either have some kind of bangs or part my hair on the side.    
   
How pretty is this heart bracelet my aunt gave me for my birthday. Smile  I love that silver hair clip too.

Very colorful and fun Betsey Johnson bag my sister gave me for my birthday. Smile

Tank top: Torrid, Sweater & Jeans: Lane Bryant, Shoes: Avenue, Bracelet: gift, Earrings: Kohl’s, Bag: Betsey Johnson, Hairclip: ?? (stole from my mom, lol)


2.) Springtime!
I’ve been trying to remember to take some outdoor pictures.  The lighting looks a little odd though.  This is not my favorite outfit, but I still like it.  This pink skirt was once my favorite thing ever…now I had to use hair clips and pins so it wouldn’t fall off when I walked…haha!

Shrug & Skirt: Lane Bryant, Tank top: Dots, Flats: Rainbow


3.) Bright Floral Teacher
I love the bright pattern on this dress!  It’s fun and still appropriate to wear to teach.  Smile

 
  

Dress & Belt: Ross, Tights & Bracelet: Forever 21, Heels: Target, Blazer: Lane Bryant,


4.) More Floral and Periwinkle Tights!
I wore this to see a play with a very sweet friend (yes, he’s a boy, ha, shocker!).  I wanted to look cute and spring-ish, but it was a little chilly, so I wore these awesome colored tights. Winking smile 
     
       

Tights: Forever 21, Dress: Forman Mills (It was $8! Yay!), Sweater: Dots, Flats: Lane Bryant


5.) See-through Polka-Dots

Jeans: ??, Polka-Dot Top: Dots, Tank top (underneath): Forever 21, Flats: Lane Bryant
Comment below, tell me which outfits you liked.  Or help me with my boy issues?! Haha! I’m hopeless.
                                                                                   ♥ Xoxo Gabriella